I am not disputing that women can or do propose to men. I am explaining why I believe women should not propose to men. Aside from the biblical/Christian standpoint, with which I agree and teach in my premarital courses, there are three simple reasons why I believe that a woman should never propose to a man.
When a woman gets engaged, one of the questions she will likely be asked is “how did you know he was the one?” It is a valid question but it’s probably one that should be asked long before getting engaged. Much like getting engaged, deciding to be in a committed relationship is a step that should not be entered into lightly.
If you think that finding the right person for you is the hard part, just wait until you actually do it! That’s right. Maintaining a healthy relationship takes a great deal of effort and can be difficult at times.